WHEN the sun goes down, some people wish to pack their bags and go and hide in the mountains.
These are the people who think sex is a ‘‘hellish act’,’ not knowing that it plays a big role in keeping the fire burning. It’s a must do!
It’s normal for anyone to lack sexual appetite. Research has shown that women aged between 18 and 59 can be affected by this sudden lack of interest in sex. However, they might be some people who may ask why sex! Sex! Sex! all the time. Sex is very important in one‘s life ladies. It is not just done to satisfy man or for reproduction purposes.
It’s not just a game like any other ordinary game. But it is important as it helps to keep your immune system humming. Sexually active people take fewer sick days, any doctor can attest to that.
People who have a good sex life have higher levels of what defends the body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. So sisters make sure you work on your passion for the game. Are you longing for more lively sex life?
Having it will make sex better for you and it will improve your libido (sex drive).
The bedroom game is also said to be good for bladder control. Good sex is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them. So those sisters who have a problem with loose muscles that give them a hard time as they urinate on themselves before they approach the toilet just try this out, it can work wonders.
Sex also lowers your blood pressure. Have you ever heard a man say that women who don’t have partners are ill-tempered (balolaka)? This is very true because the act relieves stress and lowers blood pressure.
The bedroom game is the very thing that brings you and your partner together. It creates that bond such that you will feel more for your partner. You will be willing to protect him naturally. He ends up pre-empting secrets to you whenever you give him good sex. As you have seen the benefits sisters you have to develop anxiety and desire for this natural adventure.
Lack of sexual desire may be caused by a number of things. One of the chief cause in most ladies these days is that they have turned into saints. They have been converted and think of sex as something dirty. My dear sisters, as holy as you are, so is sex. It is sacred. It’s the greatest thing that has ever happened. It becomes dirty when it’s abused, if you engage a wrong partner. It is meant for a married couple and if you deny your partner sex, I am pretty sure you will be far from entering Heaven.
My pastor told me that sex is a key factor between two people. If it wasn’t for sex that guy was not going to drag you to his parents. So avoid to pretend to be saints, try to develop an interest in the sacred bedroom game. I know for some sisters, lack of sex desire might be caused by different things such as stress from work or depression. This really hampers your sex life.
There are other things such as alcohol and menopause. Watching pornographic material and online infidelity has also contributed immensely to lack of sexual desire.
At times women tend to give kids too much attention such that sex becomes boring to them. Unresolved conflicts between you and your partner and grudges usually lead to lack of interest in the bedroom game.
Obviously there are other health problems that can affect your sex life, ranging from back pain, insomnia, arthritis, migraine and asthma, but with most couples spending only 30 minutes of quality time together a day and a general culture of longer working hours, tiredness, household chores and childcare can all make it easy simply to get out of the habit of having sex, which is detrimental to most relationships.
How then do you boost your sexual craze? I guess you are already wondering. As we speak, with some women the desire is on zero degrees. You ought to rekindle that flame. It has to be hot sisters. The honeymoon may be over but that doesn’t mean the end of romance. Go on, break out of your relationship rut, reconnect with your partner, and fire up the passion that brought you together in the first place.
So many couples hold back on kissing, touching, or holding each other until they have time or the desire to have sex.
That’s a mistake. Researchers have found that affectionate touch boosts the body’s feel-good hormones.
You need to improve communication with your partner on sexual matters. Discuss how you can improve your sexual life. Go out on holiday. Try something new. Ask him what he wants and tell him what you want.
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