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Women’s forum: It’s simple and easy, keep him closer

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Nhlalwenhle Ncube – SISTERS, I have just realised that most women think men are complicated, but that is not the case, in a short research I conducted I discovered that men are simple and can easily be pleased by small things just like babies.

All I can say is that men need to be respected, loved and not to be starved in the bedroom when hormones are on the edge!

If any woman gets armed with these things which are usually taken for granted, then she will probably be in a happy relationship.

I know every womana��s dream is to have a happy marriage, but on the other hand most of these women spoil their marriages as they become moody and fail to allocate time for their better halves.

Getting married to someone does not mean you have to start caring less, but one has to maintain the standards or continue improving! With emphasis, continue improving!!!!

Let me start by highlighting the few observations and complaints I gathered from my short research from men relating to simple things that women usually take for granted, extinguishing the marriage flame and spoiling the mood.

Remember a relationship is meant to last for a life time, thata��s a one long short, with these few trends you are destined to share dentures with your partner.

Most women find it hard to tell their partners how much they love them and I wonder what would have changed.

Remember when you were girlfriend and boyfriend, you hardly went for a day without reminding him how much you were madly in love. You know if someone says those three words, you feel special and happy.

Sisters, even after marriage continue telling your husband how much you love him and you will notice the change in his behaviour, than when you act as if you are brother and sister.

Men also want to be respected both privately and publicly. It is said that men would rather sense the loss of loving feelings from their wives than to be disrespected by them. You should never mess up with mena��s ego!

You know a number of times I have had moments where I wish the ground could open up and swallow me, because of the way some women treat their husbands in public. You find someone shouting at her husband in public. That is the worst thing to do to your partner! Dona��t go there.

Sisters, treat him like a king so that he feels like one and no man will ever leave a woman who respects him. Men being men, they can misbehave, but I tell you no man will ever dump his respectful wife. Men thrive when they know that their wives trust them, admire them and believe in them!

No matter how much or little a man makes, women should learn to complement the little things their husband do.

Men simply bear the emotional burden of providing for their family. Ita��s not a burden theya��ve chosen to bear. Men are simply wired with this burden. As such, it is never far from their minds and can result in the feeling of being trapped. While wives cannot release their husbands from this burden, they can relieve it through a healthy dose of appreciation, encouragement and support.

Lastly, and one of the most important things, men want more sex. We primarily assume that men want more sex with their wives due to their physical wiring a�?needsa�?, but surprisingly men want more sex because of their strong need to be desired by their wives. Men simply need to be wanted. Regular, fulfilling sex is critical to a mana��s sense of feeling loved and desired.

When men feel their wives desire them sexually, it has a profound effect on the rest of their lives. It gives them an increasing sense of confidence and well-being that carries over into every other area of his life. The flipside of this coin also carries a profoundly negative effect. When a husband feels rejected sexually, he not only feels his wife is rejecting him physically, but that she is somehow rejecting his life as a husband, provider and man. This is why making sex a priority in marriage is so incredibly important!

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