THERE is one thing which will never disappoint you when you want to make him want you more and do it harder, and it is none other than sexy dirty talk!
Truth be told there is nothing as boring as silent sex where all you can hear is the sound of “hits” and that is a recipe for a very dull sex life.
There should be communication which will definitely keep him attracted to you and have incredible sex.
Memories of dirty talking are difficult to erase and it keeps your partner wanting you more.
According to some studies, it is said people who talk dirty during sex actually enjoy sex more and they have stronger orgasms! Such reports should make you curious and better find out for yourself!
I know most women are afraid to express themselves during the game and that is a turn-off. Your partner is always eager to know whether he is doing it right and pleasing you or not.
By being quiet you are just driving him into the confusion zone. At least if you are not good with words, you can scream to show appreciation, but never fake it.
Dirty talk will make your man groan with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you! This is one thing every woman wants, you can even safely boast that you are the one who make him scream more!
I know that most couples, after being together for a few years, start treating each other like room-mates and playing the adult game becomes a boring chore. It will never be like that if you do dirty talk because you get to realise how exclusive and important you are.
Never stop talking dirty to your partner as it increases the sexual tension between you and him for a very long time.
Sexual tension is that magical feeling that keeps you thinking about each other, wanting to be physically close and gets you completely aroused when you are in each other’s company.
Talking dirty to your partner is the absolute best way to build sexual tension with him. You can scream and shout all sorts of filthy, dirty and nasty profanities while you and your man are getting on it.
To begin with, you can also use a bunch of other freaky and dirty talking phrases that make for more sensual and sexy love making.
For example you can whisper in his ear, “Don’t stop, I love it” or “You feel incredible” . . . a lot can be said and it’s going to work, expect a great outcome.
When you combine building sexual tension, keeping your man thinking about you and having intense sex, you can probably see just how beneficial talking dirty can be for your relationship!
If you have not been practising this in your relationship and have decided to give it a try, please make sure you take it step by step. If you just start talking dirty to your man and are being extremely explicit, then there is a chance that he is going to get a little freaked out as that will be least expected from you.
The best way to go about it is to slowly introduce dirty talk that is not too extreme or explicit. Start slowly and build up to the more intense stuff!
Almost all men on the planet adore it when you talk dirty to them, but it’s vital that you quickly learn what type of dirty talk phrases he likes most.
Some guys prefer it when you are subtle and even polite with your dirty talk while others prefer it when you are super explicit. Just tailor it and know what he likes most . Every person has their particular trigger words that feel too jarring for them. Some people adore their dirty talk to be filled with swear words, others hate it. Some people want their dirty talk to include very clinical descriptions of their genitals or dirty street slang.
Make sure you check in with your partner (outside of the bedroom) to see if there are any words that they want you to avoid during your dirty talk. If you check in with him, it enhances the feelings of safety, comfort and connection.
It’s a sign of respect!
During your dirty talk, you can also be descriptive as the details of the talk make it so much of a turn-on. They can be supercharged in a massive way if you shift them each with a bit of descriptive detail. It is also fun to use all of your senses and with most people, it is usually a sense of sight and touch.
While there’s nothing wrong with sticking to your comfort zone by staying within the parameters of these two dominant sexual senses, there’s so much fun when you let your descriptive imagination run wild.
Talking dirty is incredibly hot and arousing, making your sex life hotter and more enjoyable, preventing your relationship from becoming boring and routine!
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