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No to a�?sexya�� pictures

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IT all starts when he asks for sexy pictures and all that comes to most womena��s mind is that he wants to have a look at her cookie jar, breasts and naked body.

Next time you get such a message, give a second thought before rushing to spoil him as that might spoil a lot in your future.

I know the intention will be of giving him a little strip tease, but better do it in person, not via camera!

Sisters, do you know that during hot days no one ever imagines parting ways with her man of the moment, but never do the grave mistake of sending him your nude pictures as it will come to haunt you one day.

Some men after being red carded will do anything to destroy you and armed with your nude pictures, believe me when he leaks them, you will take time to recover from the embarrassment.

No woman wants to be seen naked and onea��s body is only for the special person otherwise the rest should be left guessing.

In fact, I believe a man who asks for your nude pictures does not have any respect for you.

Even if it is your husband, better do sexting because even his phone can get lost or end up in the wrong hands that might end up forwarding your pictures to other social platforms.

Even the man whom you will have sent those pictures after having them gone viral, will not want to be associated with you.

That is the reason you will find men not even being comfortable walking around with their partners in mini-skirts because they want it all only for themselves. Let him wait for the real thing not a picture!

If you look at the a�?newsa�? lately, you find pictures of who and who having been leaked. Do you think there is anyone who wants her naked pictures to be seen by the whole world, definitely no, but it happened as fate would have it.

Think about it again: would you like your photos to be plastered for the whole world to see?

Have a little respect for yourself. Think about what you are sending. Ask yourself how what you send may affect your future a�� friends, employment, children a�� before you press the a�?senda�? button. Have a little respect for yourself.

Do not send because you have seen nude pictures of other women; just know those women actually get paid for it. By giving out pieces of your bodies in the form of photos, you are giving away pieces of your empowerment.

I know some women think that sending a naughty picture to their partner will tempt him into some fun later on in the day, but there are other ways to get their attention. Do not show off the goodies through pictures!

Unfortunately to those women who will be dating immature men, they want the naked pictures for the ego boost it gives them. They go on and share with friends in trying to double the boost. A a�?Noa�� should be a a�?Noa�� when it comes to nude pictures and despite men having the belief that a Noa�� might be meaning keep asking, never change your mind. I believe that sexy messages can be beneficial to a solid relationship, but I find it demeaning outside that.

Besides the obvious pleasure that men get from receiving nude photos of a woman that they are involved with, there is also the conquest aspect. Men feel a kind of pleasure having acquired these photos. They feel as though they have won something, a prize in a way. This is part of what makes women become objectified by the photos. The man might use the photos as bragging rights and share them with buddies or even acquaintances.

Sisters, remember to maintain your dignity always.

Following last weeka��s article on masturbation, there are some readers who misquoted me. IA� STATED THAT THE ARTICLE IS BEING WRITTEN AFTER SOME RESEARCH FOLLOWING READERS WHO HAD REQUESTED TO KNOW THE BENEFITS OF MASTURBATING. Take note that these people are already doing it and they wanted to know more of its benefits.

Unfortunately, some readers took it that I was encouraging their wives to practise it which I never did.

People have to understand that we have different beliefs and if you are against a certain practise, just ignore.

On a parting note First of all, sex was created by God for procreative purposes, physical enjoyment, and the demonstration of intimacy between a husband and a wife. In this context, the sexual act is intended to occur in a healthy marriage relationship between husband and wife in purity and holiness.

In contrast to this, masturbation is the self-stimulation to the point of sexual release without the gifting of a spouse.

It would seem that masturbation is a denial of the sexual design of God for couples. But, is it sinful? Again, answering this question is difficult because the Bible does not pronounce it as sin. Nevertheless, there is the principle of purity that is obviously true. Does masturbation fall under the category of purity?

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