ITa��S so sad that there are some people who have a specific sex script and they go with it for many years without even trying to edit it.
Talk of watching the same Isibaya episode for years. A monotonous sex script is mundane and results in boring a bedroom life because it has the same settings, moves and lots of limitations.
If youa��re serious and want a happy marriage you should throw away a sex script and be adventurous in the bedroom.
The script also makes one to become too serious as it makes you appear as if you are reciting a forcefully crammed poem and it limits you from discovering your full potential and hence reducing the orgasm goal game into becoming un-pleasurable.
The bad thing with scripting sexual endeavours is that you get used to short predictable sessions, it will always be the same issue and the day your partner tries to last longer than usual, you might get hurt after becoming dry. Scripts just spoil the fun!
You should not be afraid to say yes to some new things. If he suggests something new that you think you might actually like, go for it. A new move, position, or sexual adventure that you have never tried before can be the ticket to your toe-curling orgasm. Remember that even if you say yes, you can always change your mind if you become uncomfortable with something. Consenting to one thing is not consenting to everything, and you are allowed to say no.
Some women have never had orgasm because of sex scripts they have in their minds. They have specific time frames in their minds and when it ticks that means the end of the game. Make it a point that you have an orgasm every single time you play the adult game. If your partner comes without you, tell him that you didna��t and ask that he helps you finish. This clearly shows that scripts are not needed in the bedroom.
No decent man would like to leave his partner hanging so he will help you get there and if he doesna��t want to help you come, read the riot act because no one wants a selfish man.
Everyone should be wild and open in the bedroom. Learn to tell your partner what really takes you to cloud nine. If you already know what works, dona��t waste time on trial and error. Speak up and tell your partner what you want and how you want it a�� in explicit detail. If you want to show than tell, guide his mouth or hands yourself. If you are getting close, let him know how to take you all the way: tell him to go left, right, faster, slower, or harder. Chances are your partner will be more than happy to take direction if it means that he gets extra props for successfully getting you off.
When youa��ve been in a relationship for years, ita��s all too easy to grow comfortable and slip into a sexual rut and the problem with such kind of comfort is that it leads to boring sex life and no one should settle for a boring sex life with the same boring script.
It should not always be about him removing your clothes, getting on top and satisfying himself. Commit to getting naked and touching one another more frequently. Explore full body contact, your hands and mouths, erotic talk and all the other ways you can pleasure one another. Who knows, you may just discover a new favourite path to arousal.
The bedroom game should never be a predictable one. If you have been together for a while, this can definitely be a problem. Part of the reason why things were so hot between you and him when you first got together was because you didna��t know what to expect. If you want to maintain a similar level of excitement months or even years down the road, you have to keep it fresh. Paint on a new sexual move canvas daily and you will have a wide palate to chose from before you know it you will be the sex Picasso.
Dona��t be afraid to try new things that you will both enjoy; never let it get to a point where he can anticipate your every move. For instance, if you usually spend five minutes on foreplay, spend 15 minutes next time and tease him mercilessly. It is just fun and makes life enjoyable.
You know that one of you is armed with a script when you do not experiment. In life you try different recipes when cooking to find the best one and it should be the same case in the bedroom and you will hit where it matters most and your sex life will forever be great and you will be granted of never giving up on your sex life.
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