long distance

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Long distance relationships help you to develop personal strength and consistency.

You learn how to make a commitment, even when things are difficult. You discover the power of your relationship to overcome all obstacles.

Many relationships weaken with distance, but others get stronger and there are good things that can come with distance too!

Generally, most people have been made to believe that distance makes the heart grow fonder, but that is not true! All you have to bear in mind is that a long distance relationship is no different from a proximal one in that they both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding.

Being a woman, there will be a lot of temptations and definitely some men will come to try their luck as they will mistake you for a a�?sexually starveda�? person.

The problem starts there, but what I will tell you my sister is that you have to stay focused. Do not ever lie or fool yourself by saying I will do it for a short time, because at the end of the day you will get emotionally attached to that a�?boyfrienda�? and it will be steaming disaster for you.

Remember that no one will justify your actions because this world is cruel to women and you will be labelled a a�?whorea�?. Better be careful when it comes to such issues! Of course, ita��s a different case for men because there are always dozen shelved excuses to justify their wayward actions.

Long distance relationships, though always challenging, there are ways to make them successful and blissful. The fact that you are going to be apart for a while is just another minor challenge that you need to rise to.

There will be temptations that will be thrown at your face, if you are not resilient, they will throw you off balance.

That is life. The trick is to adapt and overcome lifea��s barrage of challenges.

Hey, do you remember the promises you made to each other. When you echoed those sentiments saying, a�?I will love, respect and care for you through thick and thin, in rich times and poor timesa�?. When you made that vow, you seriously built deep love between you and your partner.

You can only experience deep love with time and experience!

It enriches your soul. You feel fulfilled by it to your very marrow. Successful long distance relationships are built by people committed to love and being loving to each other. Often times choosing to love involves hard work and the rewards it pays outweigh anything else you can get from this world!

One important thing you have to do with your partner to enjoy long distance relationship is being honest with each other. Talk about all the challenges that you are likely to experience through being so far apart from each other.

Make contingency plans for your insecurities, your sexual needs, and what you need to put in place to keep the relationship thriving. The people that enjoy such relationships do not leave things to chance!

You know when you are miles apart, it is easy to feel a�?separateda�?. Do not let your romance die because it will be difficult to catch up if you meet after a long time. Stay in regular contact and bring up those romantic scenarios of intimacy and joy. Most important to your partner is being reassured that they are still loved and that you are thinking about them despite all the distractions of life where you are.

Haa, if truth be told, if you are healthy, you are going to be horny and ita��s hard to get satisfaction if your partner is on the other side of the country, or worse, the world.

The secret is to maintain those communication lines and include lots of time for each other and keeping yourself busy by engaging in other daily activities.

The more you reveal of your true self the closer the relationship becomes. As for coping with temptation, this is where your commitment comes into play and you have to know what you want in life!

Sisters, long distance relationships need someone of high self esteem who believes in herself. That will help you in overcoming feelings of jealousy. Of course all romantic relationships can experience jealousy and fears about cheating, but generally long distance ones take longer to resolve those feelings. If you talk to your beloved and he sounds low or concentrating on something, definitely you will feel jealous. The important thing is to not beat yourself up about it!

Ita��s natural to feel a bit jealous and insecure. It is going to happen, so accept it and better not let it escalate. Maintain your own high self-esteem and high self-worth. Keep doing things that you enjoy. You are a valuable, attractive, interesting person. Ita��s important for your own mental health that you adopt the attitude that you are special and the best choice for them!

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