AN ABUSIVE man was brought to shame last week on Tuesday at the Lupane Magistratesa�� Courts when his bitter wife complained that he had a big but useless organ.
Thando Sengwayo (29) did not live up to his name which literally means a�?lovea�? but opted to be physically abusive whenever a domestic argument arose between him and his wife Sinqobile Sibanda (25).
Sibanda told the court that more trouble came when she was supposed to get her conjugal rights.
a�?Your worship, this man has sexually abused me for a long time. He has a big penis where one would assume it works to expectations but akulalutho (ita��s useless). He is lazy and does one round and a short one for that matter then he sleeps,a�? complained Sibanda.
The woman went on to say that Sengwayo claimed to be tired most of the time.
a�?Most of the times he comes home drunkA� and when ita��s time for our bedroom life he will claim that he is too tired saying he works a physically demanding job of brick moulding. He would alsoA� complain that Ia��m a troublesome wife who loves sex too much and in the process he would hit me with a rope,a�? she said.
In a bid to improve the sour relationship Sinqobile told the court that she engaged Sengwayoa��s aunt but nothing fruitful was realised.
a�?I engaged his aunt to talk to him but when she did he told her he does not suffer from any ailment. I have three children with this man. Ia��m seeking a protection order because I fear that if this problem continues unresolved he will end up killing me,a�? said Sibanda.
He admitted bashing his wife.
a�?I have been an abusive man but I blame that on my job which is strenuous and physically demanding. I promise this court that I will refrain from being abusive and try to be a good husband,a�? he said.
Magistrate Ndumo Masuku ordered him not to physically and sexually abuse his wife and granted Sibanda a protection order.