oral sex

Eating it not a bad idea, but . . .

Nhlalwenhle Ncube – THERE are people who cannot imagine themselves being in relationships with partners who are not keen on a�?a�?eatinga��a�� their privates.

It seems this is a big issue which has led to sudden end of some relationships, though people usually take it lightly.
Sisters, let me try and explain several burning issues which popped up on many occasions during our conversations.

There are men who feel great when they are in a relationship with a woman who cana��t get enough of their one-eyed monster. They say that if a woman loves your p****, you feel loved. Unfortunately it is not the same case with other women because they cana��t or do not feel comfortable with the licking game.

Giving your partner a blow job is not a bad idea especially if he has a�?eatena�? your p****. All you have to understand is that the licking issue must be discussed and no partner should do it for the sake of it, but it should come from deep down.

The other thing ladies have to understand is that for men, their self-esteem is closely connected to their tool.

However, a womana��s self-esteem is not connected to her private parts. The point is that if you love and give attention to your partnera��s privates, he will feel loved.

Sisters, you have to understand that you should never do a blow job to return any favours! In doing so where is your sense of adventure and fun? Be inspired to please sister!

To be honest, I do not find anything wrong with a blow job as it is another way of giving and getting pleasure!

A couple should discuss the blow job issue and know each othera��s expectations before they indulge. If you do not discuss, believe me, it might turn bad. For example, your partner may ejaculate in your mouth which can be something you do not want. Such a decision should be made in advance.

During the game then the partner on the receiving end needs to let the giving partner know what feels best.

Acknowledge the sense of mutuality it takes the sex game to another level.A� Bringing in changes could be fun and may help improve the bedroom game. You might find that saying what feels good works well, or you might prefer not to speak but rather to indicate your likes and dislikes in other ways. This could include making sounds or using your hands to help guide or move the person to another place on your body.

Sisters, you have to know that when you do blow jobs you will also be exposed to sexually transmitted infections similar to vaginal sex. Of course you will be safe from getting unwanted pregnancy, but still you can get some infections.

Even during oral sex, you can use condoms! Some people feel safe engaging in this behaviour because they know there is no risk of pregnancy. However, some STIs such as herpes, gonorrhoea, hepatitis B, HIV, HPV, yeast, and syphilis can be transmitted through oral-genital contact. For example, oral herpes (cold sores) can be transmitted to the genitals and genital herpes can be transmitted to the mouth. The herpes virus can be passed even without visible sores.

HIV may be transmitted through oral sex when HIV in semen, vaginal secretions, or blood enters the mucus membranes or abrasions in the mouth and throat. Get it right, saliva does not transmit HIV. Know your partnera��s status! I know there are some people who will prefer oral to genital sex if they are not sure of their partnera��s status, but know that there is a risk as well.

Cleanliness is an important issue when it comes oral sex. Consider bathing prior to the sexual activity and only engage when ready for it, use yoghurt and ice creams to top the cherry, the flavour goes a long way in an oral induced orgasm.

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