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MOST men die for a blow job more than sex and thata��s one of the crazy bedroom facts.

I am not a fan of watching peoplea��s leaked sex tapes, but this time around I had no choice when I saw the one of a blow job. I just became anxious to see what was happening after realising it was just a blow job recording. What struck me most is that though the young lady seemed too busy, it appeared as if the man was not feeling anything, no movement or anything. Even the manhood was deep in slumber!

I then came to a conclusion that she had just been instructed to go down, but she did not know how far to go. Yes, she was very adventurous, but she ended up taking it too far as she took her blow job to the anus, not just in passing, but she really went deeper and only God knows what she could have come across.

The truth is that people should be open- minded and adventurous in bed, but they should definitely know what they are doing. It is unfortunate that despite all the effort that woman put, something was amiss and the man did not seem to be enjoying at all.

Sexuality is a process where you learn as you go, but if you are not sure of how to do something, you can do experiments and your partnera��s body language says a lot. If he is not screaming or moving to show that he is really feeling you, try something different.

At the same time, if you ignore the body language, you will never know his G-spots, which buttons to press and when.

Of course going down on your man is one of the biggest gifts you can offer him as it is one thing only kept for the special ones. Whenever you decide to do it, make sure it is an unforgettable one, not doing it for the sake of it.

Common sex wisdom suggests that enthusiasm and confidence go a long way towards making you a master of giving a blow job. There are certain things which make oral sex as pleasurable as possible and on top of the list is learning how to co-ordinate the hand job. Remember that thing is fragile and should be handled with love and care.

To make sure your man is sexually satisfied, it is essential that women make this experience something they want to do and never endure discomfort or pain in the bedroom. Learning how to co-ordinate hand job techniques with oral stimulation can be a fast-track to not only giving a great blow job, but making it something that can be a pleasurable experience for the both of you. Most men want more pressure and stimulation than you can ever deliver just with your mouth. Using your hands in combination with your mouth is the best way to give him all the stimulation he craves. Never bite it!

Oral pleasure is so incredible; most guys want it to last for as long as possible. Not every blow job needs to be a marathon, but every once in a while take the opportunity to really slow down and stretch out the experience. Learn to read his arousal signals, and as he gets closer to ejaculation, slow down your stimulation or simply hold still. As soon as he has relaxed a bit, go back to building up his arousal, that way he will have a lifetime experience.

Challenge yourself and see how long you can sustain high levels of arousal before taking him over the top! At the same time, work on communication and pay attention to the signs of his arousal so you will be able to tell how close he is to the big O. By so doing, you are also teaching him to prolong his arousal and he will be able to last longer in bed when making love.

During the blow job, make sure he stays wet; when dry it is very painful. Sensation feels way better when you make him wet. Try to generate lots of saliva and remember this is a game of hands and mouth so use of your hands to spread it all over the head and shaft. If you are not using latex condoms, you can add to the lubrication almond or coconut oil. Both taste great and can add a lot of slip and slide. If you will be using condoms later, stick to saliva.

Show your enthusiasm by moaning and groaning as you go, noise turns both of you on. It should not be too quiet and talking dirty makes it even hotter. Once in a while, spread out touches all over his body including the butt and this can really amp up his arousal. As his arousal builds, dona��t be afraid to touch him aggressively. Scratch your nails down his thighs and make him tremble more.

Going down on your guy is one of the best ways to communicate your love and devotion to his pleasure. Take control of the act and make it pleasurable for you and youa��ll be able to lavish him with oral pleasure a lot more often.

Mastering the skill of going down helps you to give him the blow job of his dreams. Oral sex isna��t just about a fabulous physical experience. It is also an essential way to communicate love and develop emotional intimacy in your relationship. Do the right thing; ita��s a blow job, not back job!

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