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Big O for 2017 . . .

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CUMINGa��a�� is not that easy if you are a woman and as such I wonder how many of my sisters have done it in 2017!

If you have been successful at reaching the a�?Big Oa�? with your man, you know that all the efforts were worth it, let me say congratulations as some are in a dilemma and do not even have an idea how it feels to reach that planet.

Clitoral orgasms may be the best-known way to cross the finish line, but theya��re certainly not your only option. You can also have a vaginal orgasm, a blended orgasm, or multiple orgasms. This may seem obvious, but many women, even today, feel inhibited about self-love and cana��t help feeling that it isna��t something they should be doing.

Masturbating helps you to learn exactly which pressures and rhythms you need in order to bring you to orgasm. So, it can be really useful. Once you have learned to climax easily on your own, you can then show your partner exactly what you need in order to make you come.

Of course, this may feel embarrassing at first. But the first step in fulfilment with a partner is to communicate your feelings to him and also to communicate how you like your body to be touched. When you cana��t find the words, use action. But also try to build up a vocabulary with your partner thata��s easy to use. A lot of couples find their sex lives fail simply because they dona��t have the right language. And saying: a�?a�?Could you rub my . . . er . . . er?a��a�� isna��t specific enough to be helpful. As a couple, you should not be ashamed, name it and enjoy. It is not like you are talking to your father-in-law but your man, so be wild and enjoy.

To help you cross the line, let your man play with your body. I know some women miss out because they are not comfortable with being touched here and there. Let him explore your body and that also leads to your big O. For example, there is a�?a�?nipplegasma��a��, ita��s caused by stimulation you get on breasts.

Foreplay is not optional as far as orgasm is concerned. The more kissing and caressing you do, the more your blood flow increases, which make you extra-sensitive. It takes 10-20 minutes of stimulation for the average woman to reach her peak and thereafter all will be history.

Also, during the adult game sex sounds are key to an awesome O. High-pitched noises bring sexual energy to your chest, throat, and head, while low-pitched noises bring them down to . . . well, down there. Switch up your sounds for a full body orgasm. Sound inhibition is the enemy of freeing your orgasm, so to escalate your experience, open your mouth and let the sounds out. You dona��t have to raise the roof,A� just try playing with little gasps and moans.

Start small by making your breath audible. Play with making soft, sexy sounds as you proceed through your arousal journey. Expand your sound as you become more comfortable with your sound ability. Moan, coo, sigh and whimper and youa��ll enhance your experience. Allow yourself to have fun,A� releasing your soundtrack of pleasure.

Use sound when you start coming and dona��t stop. Allow the sound to roll out of your open mouth along with the orgasmic wave. As youa��re climaxing, keep your sounds going and your orgasm will happen.

While having all this information on your fingertips on how to reach the big O, also get rid of anxiety as it can keep you from crossing the finishing line. Super-stressed women have lower levels of physical arousal than women with normal stress levels. So be stress-free, explore and enjoy!

Here are some positions that are orgasm friendly. Doggie style is one of the best O-inducing positions for women.

This position stimulates the G-spot which is an ultra-sensitive spot on the inside of your vaginal wall and your clitoris.

The cowgirl position, it puts you in control as you will be in charge of the pace and depth of penetration, mixing it up between shallow and deep thrusts. You really get the feel of it and have a big O. This is definitely a prescription for mind-blowing sex.

The butterfly position, the woman on her back and her hips on the edge of the bed, the man penetrates her while standing. She then puts her legs over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly upward. This gives a wonderful angle for cervical stimulation, with deep penetration that can produce some intense vaginal and uterine orgasms. With more shallow penetration, a man can stimulate the anterior vaginal wall to hit the G-spot.

Get your Big O and you will enjoy all year throughout as you will be aware which positions are best for you!
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