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Be a wife not a a�?womana��

THEY all fall in love with women, but there comes a time when they want to settle down and start searching for someone they can call a wife.

Not every woman has qualities of a wife, but one has to learn a few things and nurture them knowing her priorities and perspectives about life.

Many women dona��t know that being a woman does not necessarily mean you can be a wife to a man as there are certain qualities that qualifies a woman to be a good wife. It is not all about getting married, having children or stayingA� together.

Yes, the wedding will give you the title of wife, but to your husband the things you do will determine whether hea��s married to a woman or a wife.

Every wife is a wise woman and advises her husband on the future, family, children and financial decisions for the betterment of their lives.

They look into the future and not the present. In fact, any woman who is always concerned about the present and doesna��t talk about the future is not yet a wife. Because if they are wise they give the due respect to their husbands knowing they are the head of the relationship and dona��t compete with them.

Every wife is a hardworking person. They are always willing to work and help their husbands. They dona��t want their husbands to shoulder all the family load alone, but try as much as possible to give a helping hand. In fact, they are not consumers but rather contributors. Their work starts from home, they are not lazy and do not require supervision of their husbands before cleaning, cooking, washing or attending to their responsibilities. The truth is they love work.

Every wife is a faithful partner, they love their husbands and only him. They love their husbands in both good and bad times. They are not like other women whose love grow when they see success and money and vanish when hardships are in sight. They will never share themselves secretly or privately with other men at workplaces or church behind their husbandsa�� back.

Every good wife is a gift from God and what makes them stand out is their ability to stick to their husbands till the end. They come into the marriage to love you irrespective of what comes your way and are willing to stand with their husbands to face the odds of life. They dona��t care about your beginning, they are only interested in the vision of the man and where hea��s going in life.

As a woman ita��s never too late to change and have those wifely qualities. Be different from the women he once dated or has cheated on you with. These women constantly thrive for his attention, but you should thrive on providing him with the love, support and respect he needs.

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Avoiding a bad marriage. After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever.

A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single, please dona��t just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it. For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically.

Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devila��s primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded in affecting the community and nations negatively, ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better.

It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.

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