Appreciation is sexy!

THANKS to all the ladies who managed to do something sexy for their partners on Valentine’s Day, please do keep up the spirit!

For those who never did anything and instead just waited to receive a mug and card, wake up from the slumber and act, it’s a month of love.

Remember it’s not just a month of love, but it’s a leap year.

There is no excuse for not showing how much you love or appreciate him. Remember small things make a big difference. Don’t underestimate this simple statement, it goes a long way.

Thumbs up to all those who remembered the day and made their partners feel like real men.

I know someone might try to come up with excuses on why they ignored the day, but better keep that to yourself because I believe no matter your partner’s weaknesses, he has some characteristics you can cherish and that might be the reason you are still together.

With no doubt men took to social networks claiming that if you bend down to buying presents for your loved one on valentine’s Day during a leap year, you might as well proceed to buying a gift for your girlfriend during your birthday.

There is some brutal mockery and element of truth in that joke, which if you are a proud sister you must not take lightly.

Sisters, you should know that men need to be loved, cared for just as much as you do. Shower your partner with love and see the outcome. You know at times when you observe a certain couple from a distance, you realise that love has faded away from the way they speak and do their things. As a woman, even after marriage do not relax telling yourself that he is all yours because love needs to be cultivated, do not let it die!

Become your husband’s dream girl. Your husband should take you as his dream girl and exciting wife. If you become a careful and thrilling wife, believe me, no one will ever be able to snatch your husband. You know at times some women invite divorce for themselves by having a carefree attitude. Everyone needs to be loved.

Sisters, strive to be your partner’s wife and mistress. Let me remind you what a mistress does. A mistress will never forget Valentine’s Day, Father’s Day or his birthday, why? They know that a man’s ego matters showing him how much he is appreciated, it makes him feel good and want to do everything that keeps you happy.

There are some sisters that I talked to who vehemently held their ground and insisted that as long they are alive, leap year or not, they will never buy a gift for their husbands as it is their job. Such attitude worries me a lot!

Let there be joy in the house, do everything with love and happiness!

When you want to be the only wife and mistress in your husband’s life learn to treat him like a baby or job. I know most women will do anything to keep their jobs and will go out of their way to make sure that their babies are happy.

The way you treat these two should also be applied when it comes to the man in your life.

All those who did not do anything for their partners’, it is not yet late to celebrate as we are still in the month of February. Remember this is a month of love and it’s on us since it is a leap year.

You do not need money for the celebrations, but just come up with a good idea and do something unique which will make him know that he is the “real man” and real deal!

Your articles are so true; keep it up my dear sister.

Hie madam; I just wanted to say a very big well done in all the articles you write. Men have been branded as dogs when really one has to bear a partner who has no sense of appreciating and it’s a real turn-off. Keep the interesting articles rolling.

Hey, thanks for the articles on B-Metro. I enjoy reading them and please send more tips on how to handle our men because truth be told; we don’t want to be single.

Hie, I was inspired by the teaching you give in B-Metro titled Orgasms are wonderful. Wonderful!

Been going through your articles for a while. I am gobsmacked at your perspectives.

I like your women forum programme, it really touches me a lot.

Your stories on women forum rocks Nhla, you must be naughty kkkkkkk.

I liked your article about ladies faking orgasm. I think it is all about attitude when you are with your partner and some ladies are always defensive to the extent of depriving their self the joy of adult game. Keep it up MaNcube for your educative column. — Magwera

You rock, you good, you are a star. Good advice.

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